He has no identity, just a look, a silolette, a tall dark figure. I seen my boy Alex, but he didn't seem to see me. I wandered the halls after my exam finished to try and bump into him. But he was still in class and didn't notice me. I waited in the student lounge for bit in hopes for him to come and sit down. I did see him while I was waiting for the bus. And I feel like I should of ran after him and said "excuse me, whats your name?" but then when would I say if he asked why I wanted to know. "Um well I see you in your class all the time and think your cute." He'd think I was crazy! But Im actually dreaming about this guy, invisioning him,and fantasying about him. He has taken over most of my thoughts.
My classmates think Im crazy...They call me the stalker lol. But Im not stalking. I think I just talk to much lol. They think Im obessed with this guy. I just want to have a chance to get to know him. I doubt I'll be in any of his classes. At least not the next one. I start business communications on Monday.
Im getting to the point where I just need to go up to him and ask him his name. Start some kind of conversation. Whats the worse he can do? "Tell me to F-off." Or tell all his friends Im weird and that I stalk him lol. Nah.. I mean if he has a girlfriend maybe I can be his friend. Its just that I never run into him, I usually only see him in his class. I need to do something, because Im gonna go crazy. If he had a girlfriend or wasn't into me that would be fine. But me just seeing him and wondering all the time about what would happen drives me nuts. I worry that if i wait too long I could lose the chance I had. Like I'd just rather know if something was going to happen or not. I hate waiting. I hate letting things happen. Maybe thats why love never works out for me. Becasue I don't just let things happen. I always have to make them happen, I can never wait and be patient. I tend to rush things and push things, maybe they shouldn't be pushed!
I need your help..What are some good conversation starters? Or can I just walk up to him and introduce myself. Realistically if a strange guy walked up to me and say "hi my names Ken" I'd
be alittle weirded out. Can I just ask him his name? Or maybe tell him I like his shirt. What should I do? I need to get some courage. If I knew he didn't have a g/f.Could I just say "Im Amanda did you wanna go out sometime." Isn't that really blunt. I mean he doesn't even know me. Or should I be straight forward and say. Hi I think your cute. We don't know each other but my names Amanda. I was wondering if you wanted to go out sometime.Im not creepy or anything I'd just like to get to know you."
See Im losing it. Help me out. I need to do something monday!
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2 comments:
For men, this type of thing would be extremely hard to pull off in most cases. But fortunately for you, this is much easy for women to get away with! :) Now all you have to do is what you said at first. Walk up to the guy and ask him his name! Thats the first thing. Then if he ask you way, just tell him you think he's cute and you were wondering if you'll could get together sometime and hangout (or "kick it" if you what to be hype). Really, all you have to do is tell him that you were getting tired of seeing him everyday and not saying nothing! so you just decided to finally say something!
It shouldn't matter what you say to him really! Us men, we love the attention eihter way it goes!
Personally, I wouldn't ask for his name yet. In my experience if asking for my name is the first thing I guy asked, I get a bit suspicious and my first instinct is to lie. A name is precious, knowing a name opens a lot of things. Shakespeare said that names are not important,
What's in a name? that which we call a rose
By any other name would smell as sweet
But I agree with Whitman on people's names because it's descriptive as its true essence.
I give my name when we reach that comfort (at least) or trust zone.
I digress. My advice for conversation starter? Since you hang out outside his class, you can perhaps try to wait until its finished and then asked him about the class (you can say you were thinking of taking it) and how was the teacher etc If he seems keen on the class, just get him to keep on talking about it by asking questions and being really interested. Then you can say, you'd like to hear more over a cup of coffee (or whatever you have over discussion in Canada hee hee) : )
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